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TO CHILDHOOD FRIENDS

TO CHILDHOOD FRIENDS Standing in the line to go into the church, I came across a young woman I hadn’t seen in awhile. We affectionately recognized ...

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I AM NOT SNOW WHITE

I AM NOT SNOW WHITE Carpenter ants, nuclear size wasps, bats, deer, hawks, a single bunny. These are the insects and mammals that have decided to s...

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ISABELLE’S CHICKEN

Dearest Michael, You are so fortunate to have been born when your Great Grandparents were still alive. You got to meet Grandma Kitsie, (HOT FUDGE S...

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ORGANIZED CHAOS

ORGANIZED CHAOS “I am coming tomorrow to paint,” my friend, Joe said to me when he called me last Sunday to let me know. I had called him about a m...

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FOUR MONTHS ALREADY

FOUR MONTHS ALREADY What? Four months? Scars are barely noticeable and this is without dousing them compulsively with oil. As a matter of fact I le...

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BROCCOLI CASSEROLE

BROCCOLI CASSEROLE Dearest Michael, There are some recipes that I must share with you because of the experience of the recipe and not necessarily b...

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PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION Put the ac in the window. Read the directions. Who writes these fucking things, seriously is the diagram really intended fo...

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HUMMUS

HUMMUS Dearest Michael, When I was only twelve, my grandparents, your great grandparents, took me on an almost one month trip to Israel and Italy. ...

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IT’S NOT FINE

IT’S NOT FINE I tend to speak to people about my double mastectomy three and a half months out like I just got over the flu. It is likely a surviva...

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CHOCOLATE CHIP PANCAKES

CHOCOLATE CHIP PANCAKES Dearest Michael, I learned so much about mothering from our friend and pretend family, Karen. Karen has been our neighbor r...

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ANOTHER CANCER GIFT

ANOTHER CANCER GIFT A dear friend gave me a necklace last night that said ‘SURVIVOR’ on it. Normally this type of gift with this type of word on it...

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CHOCOLATE CHIP PIE

CHOCOLATE CHIP PIE Dearest Michael, “You’re a really great baker,” you said so matter of factly to me when we were driving somewhere the other day....

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